not the febfem flag lmfao

@Johnny B. Mediocre
Why do terfs gotta ruin nice things like this?

@Dewdrops On The Grass  
sorry you had to find out this way m8

@Johnny B. Mediocre  
And now I’ve looked into things further and I realized Stummm was using this term:
 
https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Febfem
 
“While it technically means a bisexual and m-spec woman who only dates other women, in practice it’s almost exclusively used by transphobes (specifically TERFs) to mean a bisexual woman who will only date cis women and trans men.”
 
As well as a flag specifically dedicated to that.
 
And when I looked into all the discussion on Twitter, every time it came to that subject Stummm switched to using straight Russian, requiring Google translate. Which, while it muddies things, made it pretty clear. You’re right.

@Johnny B. Mediocre  
Hmm. I’d rather hear it directly from Stummm before I presume.
 
Because if this is true… well, it means I need to go remove some art from a story of mine because I’m a trans woman and I’m not going to keep art from a TERF in my stories.
 
But I’ve also interacted with Stummm privately on many occasions and I’d like to think I would have noticed prior to now if Stummm was a TERF.

@Dewdrops On The Grass  

@Johnny B. Mediocre  
I don’t see anything TERFy in what was said in that post? What she’s trying to say is, if someone is bisexual or pansexual, and they’re claiming use of the term lesbian, that can be disingenuous and/or harmful.

@Johnny B. Mediocre  
Y’see? I knew this was gonna happen. You start giving everyone their own flag like the former Yugoslavia, now the lesbians are ethnically cleansing the transwomen. When does NATO start bombing?

yeah no I’m taking back my favorites - OP is a terf
 

Aw. Snuggly time.

To every lady, be they lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, or what have you, please be well, and know you are cared for. We all gotta stick together.
 
And this is beautiful. I love the way they’re wrapped up in the flags like coats, or yukatas.