@Cirrus Light
The later EG movies and S5 has done an excellent job at undervaluing her being a princess and how she became a princess in the first place, and I don’t think that many people would consider it ‘horrible to retcon’ anymore.
Now its not something they should do outright obviously, and I’m against the term ‘retcon’. ‘Retcon’ is usually a term reserved for changing a major aspect in the story unnaturally. If the plot was pre-planned to give a character something(like princesshood) just so they can learn to live without it and grow wiser in the process, then its not a retcon.
There’s no point of her ever getting wings and giving them up if she never learned something from the experience. That goes without saying. If Twilight traded her wings in for a spine, that would suddenly make Twilight infinitely more interesting as a character. Her wishing to have Golden Oaks backs, fighting in her comfort zone dreamscape not like a princess and more like a wizard librarian, seems to be small hints to her later character growth.
Also, partially due to healthy criticisms of the viewers, and partially due to the show’s own criticisms, very few consider Celestia’s decision to be in any shape or form ‘flawless’. Or Celestia representing any kind of truly ‘wise god-like’ figure. The show has all but given up on giving Twilight’s princesshood meaning, or something flowery like she actually died and was reborn.
Twilight’s destiny of being princess seems to be leaning towards one of those ‘false prophesy’ resolutions, where the character in question chooses to be themselves over some destiny given to them, and grows stronger because of it by going with their personal strengths, while either tossing their destiny aside or giving it to someone more worthy, usually the primary main character to the secondary main character, or vice versa.
Does having an important lineage make you strong?
Think! Who are YOU?
Expectations from others will only pressure you.
And that will lead to you feeling inferior.
That mental burden does nothing but hold you back.
Don’t be afraid to break expectations!